Am I crazy? A little, but isn’t everybody? I realize the word “manipulator” has bad connotations. It means getting what you want from someone without them even realizing they are giving it to you. Wait…is that all that bad?

After a few years of being a dating+sex columnist and answering literally thousands of women’s questions and listening to their stories I’ve learned that, if you think you should say and ask for exactly what you want exactly the way you are thinking it all the time, you’re going to often wonder why you are single.

Men are sensitive. And men are insensitive. So I’ve come up with a combination of ways to deal with issues in a way that won’t offend them. And also, for those special days, to absolutely drive them nuts when they are being douchebags

This is also just a place where the little devil in all of us that wishes we could do and say some pretty bat shit crazy stuff to our significant others can live, and your boyfriend never has to know…

So, I hope this informs you, confirms your thoughts, or just makes you laugh!